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becoming family, gift, Larissa Cleveland, San Francisco City Hall wedding, thank you, wedding photography
On Friday evening, I was pouring over our wedding budget, desperately trying to find a way to make it possible for us to pay for the wedding we have planned. In my in-box sat an email from our photographer, Larissa Cleveland, with a revised contract attached. I had been avoiding signing the revised contract because it was just so much more money than we have to spend. I started to draft an email to Larissa to tell her that we had decided we just couldn’t afford to add any time to the contract. Tony returned from getting the mail and dropped an envelope on my keyboard.
“Who do you know in Minnesota?” he asked.
“I don’t know,” I said.
I looked at the return address and ripped open the envelope trying to puzzle it out. When I opened the envelope, I found a card, which read:
Sarah, Tony, Bean & Bug
After seeing the outcome of the photography contest, I was heartbroken. You really deserved to win, so that should have been the outcome, right? But the #s were in and that was that … sort of …
I did a little poking around, I found that you all have hit a nerve with Blog Land and that people really wanted to help! … So, whatever else you plan, you have two additional hours [of photography] gifted to you! Your family has something special going on, and we all want to see that celebrated (and documented)!
Much love!
Jenna of Smile in Motion and Blog Land
Below Jenna’s name was a piece of paper folded accordion style and taped to the inside of the card, with the names of 25 other bloggers who contributed to the gift. {I’m not linking to your blogs here because I don’t know if you want the world to know who you are. If you do, let me know. I’ll add links.}
I have spent much of the weekend ruminating over how best to write this post, how to express the depth of our gratitude, not only for the gift of photography but for the outpouring of love we received. I have to say, this is not an easy post to write. I burst into tears — the ugly kind.
How do you say thank you to the Internet?
- Thank you for believing in us.
- Thank you for following our journey.
- Thank you for taking time out of your day to write to me, to comment, to kibitz on our wedding plans.
- Thank you for supporting us and cheering us on.
- Thank you for making yourself a vital part of our community.
When I started this blog, I did not expect to find a community of women who feel like my best friends. If I could have twenty-five bridesmaids, you would be them. Thank you.
Heaps of praise for Jenna, who pulled this all together.
Cheers and applause for you and your family, who so totally deserve the extra photography.
This totally calls for an emoticon:
Thank YOU for sharing yourself with the internet. You guys deserve all the good stuff that comes your way, including incredible people like Jenna, who know how special you are.
Awww that is so sweet! I totally agree that you guys have something special going on and deserve to have that documented. That is heartwarming and makes my Monday.
aw, I totally want to be a cyber bridesmaid!
Also, I put up a post as well with all the wonderful people who contributed – except one who declined to be named – so check it out! I may have sent some e-mails, but it was a group effort to make it happen!
HELLS YES JEN!!!
And hells yes you guys. That’s all.
OH MY GOD! That is wonderful!!!
I wish I had known about the secret plan to help out! Although I wasn’t able to contribute, I am so happy this plan was hatched and y’all got more photographer time, since everyone’s best efforts to win you the photography contest failed. Hooray for blogland friends and supporters! Thank you for sharing so much with us.
Wait a minute. CYBER BRIDESMAIDS? So does that mean I get to talk like a robot? Maybe I’m thinking more Cyborg bridesmaid. Either way, I can get down with that.
Sending so much love and joy your ways. Thank you for sharing with us and making us part of your family. <3
Jen did a fabulous job. Good heart in that one.
And now all I can think is, “Exterminate! Exterminate!”
you were one of my first blogfriends. I’m so glad Jen orchestrated this, it was completely awesome to see how loved you guys are
You guys totally deserve this. It warms my heart, for you guys and for Bean and Bug.
(And you’re right, the internet is not just for porn. I love you for that reference.)
Can dudes be bridesmaids?
Absolutely. My brother is my witness (I guess that makes him the stand-in for a maid of honor).
And the internet wins over real life, yet again
Stipulation: we must see every.single.photo.
Woohoo! Jenna did a fantastic job getting everyone together. The internets is good for something!
You, tony, bean& bug totally deserve this! I can’t wait to see every photo! Does this mean we can have family albums?
I think Jen is amazing as well for being such a rock star!!
Sarah – We love you out here in the internet! Just look at all the cyberbridesmaids here. I think this deserves a cyber bridesmaid dress and cyberflowers, but without the wedding party politics or challenges, right? Seriously though, we love you and thank you to Jenna for organizing all this. She put into action what the rest of us all felt.
Thanks to Jenna for putting this together. It makes me feel so happy to be part of such an amazing community of bloggers that I almost burst into tears while reading this a few minutes ago in a coffee shop in Hoboken.
So happy for you guys.
PS. Having seen Avenue Q three times in the last decade, your headline made me crack up.
I’m so glad you got the reference! toyed with the idea of either doing a Pop Quiz like Kerry or inserting a Youtube video from Avenue Q, but I try to keep this blog fairly clean because Bean will insist on watching any videos I post.
I was so happy to help because I truly believe in your family Sarah and I believe that it deserves to have the special day when you become an official family documented. It is a big deal and you are a big deal.
I am thrilled at the idea of being a cyber bridesmaid. I’ll have to dress up for your wedding too!
This makes me so, so happy. Thank you to Jenna, and thank YOU and your beautiful family for inspriring all of us in things related and unrelated to weddings.
My mind does not work in devious ways. I am always so shocked to hear of people who embezzle or manipulate because I never think of those things. But I’ll tell you what, I was WRACKING my brain for ways to stuff my own email ballot box so that you would win! Guilt and honesty got the best of me so I couldn’t, but I was SO HAPPY when I got the email from Jenna and was even happier that someone thought outside the box to help you get some extra time with your photographer.
Sometimes when it comes out that I write a blog, I get a little embarrassed, like when I admit to LOVING American Idol and Lady Gaga. But you know what? I have met (both virtually and face to face) some of the most amazing people through blogs and I am proud and honored to be a part of this community.
You and Tony rock and deserve all the best blongland can offer.
Sorry, that would be blogland.
This is amazing, Sarah. You deserve it all.
Cyber bridesmaids! This is giving me a whole new reason to print ceremony programs.
Sarah, you are so so welcome, we love you. Jen, you’re a hero for pulling this together. YAY!
This is so sweet and amazing. I’m so excited for you and just completely awed. Congratulations!
I am so, so happy for you guys! My heart hurt when the contest results came out … but look what happened! You have people all over who love you … and trust me when I say there are many more of us that would have jumped at the chance.
Now, to take that happy karma and spread it around a little. It’s a magical feeling. =)
I didn’t know what Jenna was doing, but yeah, I think everyone’s heart was hurt at the time.
What a happy ending though.
hooray! I’m so glad Jenna organized this! love you guys!
Amazing! I wish I’d known this was going on, but yeah, I can’t think of two people more deserving.
Hooray, hooray, hooray!!! I am so so pleased it all worked out!
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This is very very cool and so very very sweet! Kudos to the blogger bridal brigade!!!
I was getting so nervous that Jenna’s notice to you might not arrive in time with your recent posts sounding pretty worried about your budget and the photography, but hooray! I love Robin’s description of us as cyber bridesmaids.
I am so glad you guys have a happy resolution to this. I voted for you guys, but was unaware of most of the drama and the contest results. Anyhow, yay for the creative and generous blogfriends who gave you this awesome gift.
That is so awesome! I credit Louise for bringing me here and I am so happy for you guys
(even though we have never met!!)
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